Basically, this was me last year:
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=2071223
...now it's one and 1/2 years on and I'm 22 and yet to have a girlfriend...
There's this I wrote 4 weeks ago:
So basically...the status quo has not changed.
Look, this issue doesn't keep my up at night, or get me down...just from time to time it eats at me, like tonight!
I'm just wondering if it will, or can ever happen to me?
There's actually been two girls in the last year that I thought about manning up and actually asking, but it just didn't work out. I didn't want to force a relationship, just because I want one. I want it to be right.
There's was this one girl I was spending a bit of time with, enjoying each other's company, but then she did a few things that put me off (not to me). We still hang out every now and then, but I know I wouldn't want to date her!
The other girl was at work, and it had come back to me that this girl liked me. Again she's nice, good to work with...but without going into detail, she did a few things that put me off.
Now there's a third girl that I know, and I've only recently met her so I don't want to force things or take things too fast before they have really got going-
She's from abroad, she's in the country for 16 months, on a sort of gap year.
I've only known her for the last few months and we've only recently started chatting together and hanging out with mutual friends.
I'd like to get to know her more, she feels like the one, and I get the impression she enjoys my company.
The only thing *if* something comes of it, I'm not sure what's the point? She's from another country, she's got a date that she's returning to her country, and I don't speak a word of her language.
Visas and stuff aren't a problem as we are both in the EU, but (somewhere well down the line) I can't see myself letting go of my family, friends and job, to move abroad to a country where I cannot speak the language, and likely will have no job.
Maybe she would stay? But how could I be selfish and expect that of her?
I just think, if anything does happen, is there any point? If it does, she moves back, we break up, I'm back to square one.
Or nothing happens and I stay on square one anyway?
I can't really see an end game atm, and feel like in edging closer and closer to my thirties lol!
I've decided I do really like this girl, and I would love for something to happen- I just don't know how something can kick start it all, and if I'm just reading the situation all wrong.
She's always smiling, made an effort to sit next to me a couple of times, asked for my number (not randomly, there was a purpose for asking for it), fun to be around, makes jokes, liked a couple of obscure facebook posts (ones I made years ago)...but maybe that's just her? I might do all those things with other people, but it doesn't mean that I like them- could I be misreading the situation completely?
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=2071223
...now it's one and 1/2 years on and I'm 22 and yet to have a girlfriend...
There's this I wrote 4 weeks ago:
Quote:
So basically...the status quo has not changed.
Look, this issue doesn't keep my up at night, or get me down...just from time to time it eats at me, like tonight!
I'm just wondering if it will, or can ever happen to me?
There's actually been two girls in the last year that I thought about manning up and actually asking, but it just didn't work out. I didn't want to force a relationship, just because I want one. I want it to be right.
There's was this one girl I was spending a bit of time with, enjoying each other's company, but then she did a few things that put me off (not to me). We still hang out every now and then, but I know I wouldn't want to date her!
The other girl was at work, and it had come back to me that this girl liked me. Again she's nice, good to work with...but without going into detail, she did a few things that put me off.
Now there's a third girl that I know, and I've only recently met her so I don't want to force things or take things too fast before they have really got going-
She's from abroad, she's in the country for 16 months, on a sort of gap year.
I've only known her for the last few months and we've only recently started chatting together and hanging out with mutual friends.
I'd like to get to know her more, she feels like the one, and I get the impression she enjoys my company.
The only thing *if* something comes of it, I'm not sure what's the point? She's from another country, she's got a date that she's returning to her country, and I don't speak a word of her language.
Visas and stuff aren't a problem as we are both in the EU, but (somewhere well down the line) I can't see myself letting go of my family, friends and job, to move abroad to a country where I cannot speak the language, and likely will have no job.
Maybe she would stay? But how could I be selfish and expect that of her?
I just think, if anything does happen, is there any point? If it does, she moves back, we break up, I'm back to square one.
Or nothing happens and I stay on square one anyway?
I can't really see an end game atm, and feel like in edging closer and closer to my thirties lol!
She's always smiling, made an effort to sit next to me a couple of times, asked for my number (not randomly, there was a purpose for asking for it), fun to be around, makes jokes, liked a couple of obscure facebook posts (ones I made years ago)...but maybe that's just her? I might do all those things with other people, but it doesn't mean that I like them- could I be misreading the situation completely?
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