So, I've been meaning to ask this one guy out but I chickened out Besides the fear of being rejected, the aspect of being in a relationship was one of the things that put me off. He seems to be a very nice person and I do like him a wee bit.
However, the thing is that I'm 16 (so is he) and I have never been in a relationship or done anything with a boy before. While I want to do things with boys and the idea of being in a relationships seems great, I'm a bit afraid of all the problems associated with it. As selfish as it sounds, I'm 16 and it is very likely that sooner or later the relationship is going to end. I really don't want hassles, dramas and harsh feelings. I feel like people tend to have too many problems with relationships. I just want something fun and exciting but light-hearted. I find the idea of being attached to one person and being constantly worried that he would break up/flirt with other girls/have thoughts about me/lie very unattractive.
Is this normal or am I overthinking it?
However, the thing is that I'm 16 (so is he) and I have never been in a relationship or done anything with a boy before. While I want to do things with boys and the idea of being in a relationships seems great, I'm a bit afraid of all the problems associated with it. As selfish as it sounds, I'm 16 and it is very likely that sooner or later the relationship is going to end. I really don't want hassles, dramas and harsh feelings. I feel like people tend to have too many problems with relationships. I just want something fun and exciting but light-hearted. I find the idea of being attached to one person and being constantly worried that he would break up/flirt with other girls/have thoughts about me/lie very unattractive.
Is this normal or am I overthinking it?
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