just a couple of questions as i'm not sure i'm being paranoid on this. i've been seeing a guy for 3 1/2 months, the first month was very intense and then when we went back to uni in summer it cooled slightly (he lives about 45 mins train from me), but things are still great when we're together minus a few tiffs which we made up as we both want this to work. he is cautious bout being "too intense" due to being hurt in the past but says he does have strong feelings for me so i am trying to take it slow.
however - he is still listed as single on facebook and has never discussed changing it (i dont want to bring it up first), i have never met any of his friend and he hasn't offered, and i invited him to a party to meet my friends and he skirted round it vaguely/non-committally, i could just tell he wasnt that into the idea. also we have only been on 2 "dates" ever, and for the past month or so we have only seen each other late at night (he has had a lot of rehearsals and i work full-time in the week, so that could be why, but it doesn't feel "enough"). he doesnt invite me out with him and his friends like when they went to the pub last night. but i just want to see him loads and i'd want him there with me! sometimes feel a bit like a booty call/casual for these reasons...
he doesn't plan anything special for us and i got annoyed last night when we were going to go out for dinner and he said he'd rather stay in to save money for his friend's drinks tonight. i thought that was a bit insensitive but again, just paranoid!?
please help! :)
however - he is still listed as single on facebook and has never discussed changing it (i dont want to bring it up first), i have never met any of his friend and he hasn't offered, and i invited him to a party to meet my friends and he skirted round it vaguely/non-committally, i could just tell he wasnt that into the idea. also we have only been on 2 "dates" ever, and for the past month or so we have only seen each other late at night (he has had a lot of rehearsals and i work full-time in the week, so that could be why, but it doesn't feel "enough"). he doesnt invite me out with him and his friends like when they went to the pub last night. but i just want to see him loads and i'd want him there with me! sometimes feel a bit like a booty call/casual for these reasons...
he doesn't plan anything special for us and i got annoyed last night when we were going to go out for dinner and he said he'd rather stay in to save money for his friend's drinks tonight. i thought that was a bit insensitive but again, just paranoid!?
please help! :)
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