K so here's my situation. My gf and I have been together for two years. The past two months she has been recovering from giving birth to our son, but in the entire span of our relationship before these eleven months she never showed any sexual interest in me. I know that typically when you're in the beginning stages of a relationship when everything is new exciting and you can't keep your hands off each other you're having sex two to three times a day, for us in the beginning it was once a week, always initiated by me. That lasted maybe a month before it went to once a month then once every few months to who knows when now. I don't understand this girl she has no hormones at all or anything. I have tried even talking dirty to her through texts while I'm at work, nothing, tried telling her something I'd like her to do, nothing. She even enjoys watching porn, but not for any sexual purpose. She says to her it's just like tv. Oh yeah? I bet she wouldn't be w atching "tv" in front of company or around he. In our entire relationship she has only wanted to have sex with me probably a number that can be counted on one hand. Growing tired of this distance and lack of affection I decided to back off and let her be. Boy did that backfire,she went behind my back and I found she started talking to another guy, possibly several to get her jollies or whatever. She didn't have sex (far as I know) but once I show her the same attention she gives me she goes and starts talking to other people about how she wants to grind on their dicks,really???!!!! I strongly feel like a relationship is fifty fifty,half emotional and half physical, well we have just the one fifty and of course fifty percent is still a failing grade. I'm not going to cheat on her cause I know how hurtfull it is and devistating it is plus I love her with all my heart, but what do I do with all this pent up sexual frustration. I of course masturbate frequently, but she even get s upset at me for that. I ask what for and she says why don't I do something with her. Again,really??? I use to try to have sex with her so often she was getting annoyed and coming up with excuses about ninetey percent of the time. So should I really just swallow my pride and initiate sex over and over with someone that has no interest in me and do the same repeatitive thing. That's another reason how I can tell she has no interest in me,she doesn't participate when I do try, she just lays there,or tells me to shutup if I try talking during. If I want her to do anything for me I have to ask,she doesn't want to do anything for me or make me feel wanted, I have to always ask. My self esteem is completely gone and I feel so uncofortable being naked in front of her. I have expressed how I feel to her time and time again and she offers no resolution. She tells me i'm just being too sensitive, is this true. Have I just been lucky and ended up with women in the past that had a sex drive to find out there's more out there then I realize that have no sex drive. I don't know. I'd like to hear a females response if possible to know if I'm over reacting or not.
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