Ok here goes i am at my wits end . I have looked every where at what to do about my situation so as a last resort i am turning to you guys and gals for help .
Me and my wife use to be insanely crazy in bed , i mean watching porn , fantisizing , we even lived out a few fantasies that were crazy . We swapped up dominance in bed . Making it the very best of sex ever imagined . We split for a couple years and now we are back together and i couldnt imagine being without here ever again . We are going on 2 years now without hardly an argument . Everything is perfect except one thing .
Ever since we got back together , our sex life feels like somethingyou see in an old 1950s movie , where Fred and Ethel decide to push the beds together for a nite . I have spontanously some on to her many times with a no or negative response . To the point i really dont like getting myself excited and making a move . In fear of getting shot down in flames . In the past oral sex was something i got anytime i wanted and it was to completion with her loving to swallow . ( trying to be clean here not sure whats allowed lol ) Now when we do have sex , and the rare occasion she does give me oral its just for a minute to get me hard. And honestly its obvious she doesnt enjoy it now , cuz it is like she has never done it before . No such thing as bad head , i always heard but when youve had the sex i have ... yea this kinda sux , no pun intended . I have no idea what to do i love her and dont wanna look somewhere else to get what i need . I watch my porn in private and take matt ers in my own hands , and honestly its more satisfying than being with her . At this point i feel honoured to give her oral and it seems she is so sensitive that i have to be carful not to get to rough or she will stop me . Giving and recieving oral is my fav , sex used to be a close 2nd but now its pretty much something to do to get my rocks off . She wont watch porn with me . Ive tried to get her tipsy enuff to maybe let loose again ... but she gets sick or sleepy before she gets close to getting wild and its over . I honestly feel she isnt attracted to me anymore . but still loves me . I feel more like her good friend or a brother in her eyes than i do a husband . I am afraid that sooner or later advances from other women are going to win out and i will do something stupid . And honestly its getting harder to turn them away . Helpp save my sexless marriage !!!
Me and my wife use to be insanely crazy in bed , i mean watching porn , fantisizing , we even lived out a few fantasies that were crazy . We swapped up dominance in bed . Making it the very best of sex ever imagined . We split for a couple years and now we are back together and i couldnt imagine being without here ever again . We are going on 2 years now without hardly an argument . Everything is perfect except one thing .
Ever since we got back together , our sex life feels like somethingyou see in an old 1950s movie , where Fred and Ethel decide to push the beds together for a nite . I have spontanously some on to her many times with a no or negative response . To the point i really dont like getting myself excited and making a move . In fear of getting shot down in flames . In the past oral sex was something i got anytime i wanted and it was to completion with her loving to swallow . ( trying to be clean here not sure whats allowed lol ) Now when we do have sex , and the rare occasion she does give me oral its just for a minute to get me hard. And honestly its obvious she doesnt enjoy it now , cuz it is like she has never done it before . No such thing as bad head , i always heard but when youve had the sex i have ... yea this kinda sux , no pun intended . I have no idea what to do i love her and dont wanna look somewhere else to get what i need . I watch my porn in private and take matt ers in my own hands , and honestly its more satisfying than being with her . At this point i feel honoured to give her oral and it seems she is so sensitive that i have to be carful not to get to rough or she will stop me . Giving and recieving oral is my fav , sex used to be a close 2nd but now its pretty much something to do to get my rocks off . She wont watch porn with me . Ive tried to get her tipsy enuff to maybe let loose again ... but she gets sick or sleepy before she gets close to getting wild and its over . I honestly feel she isnt attracted to me anymore . but still loves me . I feel more like her good friend or a brother in her eyes than i do a husband . I am afraid that sooner or later advances from other women are going to win out and i will do something stupid . And honestly its getting harder to turn them away . Helpp save my sexless marriage !!!
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