| I have been married to my husband for almost 13 years. We are high school sweethearts, so I know him for 20+ years (I am 37). Early on in the marriage, my husband said that he did not want children. I agreed with him, so we did not have any. For a long time, we were both busy with our careers, we moved across a few countries as well. However, we have now been here at the same place for 7 years so life has settled down. Coming to the problem, I now feel like our relationship is now at a standstill. Yes, we eat out, we travel, we work long hours but then when we get home in the evening, there is nothing to talk about. My husband has been going into long bouts of silence since the past few months. He makes me feel very isolated(my parents/extended family are in another country) and lonely. The last time we had a petty fight, he suggested a trial separation. This was a shock to me. I mean, every couple fights but to think about separating for no reason at all? I cannot help but think that we are at this point because we chose not to have kids. There is nothing to take this marriage forward. I feel so lost, so lonely, so hopeless. If someone has ever been in a similar situation, please help me. | |||
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