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Really indecisive, help!

I've been sitting next to this guy in class for around a year now, and since then we've gotten really close and we now text quite a lot and talk all the time.

The thing is, I started to really *like* the guy last spring. I assumed it was just a little crush that would pass but it hasn't and I still feel the same way. He told me late sep/early oct that he likes another girl (and the trouble is, she's absolutely lovely so I'm not even allowed to hate/envy her!), which was a slightly upsetting reality check. Since then I've been helping him through his shyness and encouraging him to get her number, I want to be a good friend and I don't want to ruin anything...

He's really sporty, tall, funny very clever and really lovely.
I'm about ordinary. Slim, blonde, really short. That's about it.
I'm punching WAY above my weight.

So these feelings have been pretty pent up for a while and I want to tell him so I can just have done with it and not have this huge secret which I try not to show. However, I'm pretty sure this'd ruin our friendship and make everything awkward, although I'm sure he'd be as kind as he could. I really don't want to lose him as a friend.
But of course I suppose I can't have it both ways?

I just don't know what to do! Any advice would be great.


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