Hi All,
A few weeks ago I got chatting to a girl I met via mutual friends. All was/is good with us, we got on perfectly, she even said she was really into me in a number of ways (of course, as much as you can be into someone prior to the first meet).
A week ago, we met. Again, we got on really well, we connected, I loved how she took an interest in me and what I was wearing etc.
The only issue I had is that even though from her pictures she is pretty, when we met, I was slightly underwhelmed in her looks :( my thoughts where that she was slightly chubby. TBF not even a lot that you think she'd need a size 12 + dress, it was only when she took her jacket off. Even my friends I've shown think she is pretty and fine.
I feel really stupid because everything with her and us is like perfect and I can actually imagine myself. I do have faint feelings for her/a spark, but I think it is faint because I am so damn selective.
I do think it is stupid to think this way because you can meet a pretty girl you're attracted to and anyone's appearance can change not just via age, but illness (god forbid). You wouldn't just break up then, either!
I really want to like this girl but my own expectations are stopping me :( Any advice?
We are going to meet again (she asked me and I want to give this a fair shot).
Thanks
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