I've been out with a guy for about 5/6 dates now. I'm 22 and he's 23 but is quite mature for his age and has had a successful start to a career. Such a gentleman, pulling out chairs and doors, drops me off home etc. I know right now he's in between jobs because of some medical problems but he always pays. And right now, financially I'm not too bad. I always get out my purse and actually say let's just split it.
I know I should just enjoy being "woo-ed" and it's every girls dream. But I just feel bad. I always opt for the cheapest thing in the menu or herbal teas. What shall I do? I've spoken to him and he just feels so strongly that women shouldn't pay in dates and has a really big ego. Thinks he's a mans man, which I love. But I just feel like I don't want to be a financial burden on him, I know he has his mortgage issues and stuff with his car.
I've now thought, I'll cook for him and then it's win win. But what else can I do? Because we both love going out and trying new things. I know he does feel like he always wants to impress me with expensive restaurants and stuff, but I am kinda low maintenance. :$
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