Hi there,
My husband left only 3 weeks ago and has already moved in with his new girlfriend. I don't think he was doing anything before he actually left, but he did have an affair with this girl 2 years ago and when I found out contact was cut off. Our marriage got bad again and he re-contacted her. He is saying he loves her and can't wait to be married to her and that no one loved him like she does. He is not being honest with me about the extent of their relationship even though I have asked him point blank.
He gets angry with me when I'm not giving him his space to think things through, but the how the hell is he suppose to think things through if he is already shaking up with the new girl. She is 6 years younger then him and I think she is only seeing the single guy of things, not the father side of things or the fact that I am and will always be a part of his life. We had many discussions about separation and how we would handle it as we have had many many couples break up around us.
My question for you all is, could this be just a honeymoon phase and all lovey dovey since it is new and fresh or should I just say forget it there is no chance he is coming home?
We have 3 (16, 10 & 9) kids together and they are dealing with this separation differently. I don't want my two younger children to be at "their place" as it is really hers and there is no room for them to be or call their own space. Is this wrong for me to expect.
I am wanting to remain friends with me and I think we will once he is honest with so I can accept it and move on.
Please help and any advice from anyone who has been in this similar situation would be great.
thank you
My husband left only 3 weeks ago and has already moved in with his new girlfriend. I don't think he was doing anything before he actually left, but he did have an affair with this girl 2 years ago and when I found out contact was cut off. Our marriage got bad again and he re-contacted her. He is saying he loves her and can't wait to be married to her and that no one loved him like she does. He is not being honest with me about the extent of their relationship even though I have asked him point blank.
He gets angry with me when I'm not giving him his space to think things through, but the how the hell is he suppose to think things through if he is already shaking up with the new girl. She is 6 years younger then him and I think she is only seeing the single guy of things, not the father side of things or the fact that I am and will always be a part of his life. We had many discussions about separation and how we would handle it as we have had many many couples break up around us.
My question for you all is, could this be just a honeymoon phase and all lovey dovey since it is new and fresh or should I just say forget it there is no chance he is coming home?
We have 3 (16, 10 & 9) kids together and they are dealing with this separation differently. I don't want my two younger children to be at "their place" as it is really hers and there is no room for them to be or call their own space. Is this wrong for me to expect.
I am wanting to remain friends with me and I think we will once he is honest with so I can accept it and move on.
Please help and any advice from anyone who has been in this similar situation would be great.
thank you
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