My good buddy Matt Matt came up with a thread called examples of a cheater script.
It inspired me to start a threat about what a FWS does,says and actions that help
a BS heal,move forward and trust again.
So I guess I'm the first.
My wife saying "sorry" many times,every day and meaning it.That helped me.
Shame,I did'nt ask for it but it was evident that she felt it.
Self exposure,she told people wth no proding from me.
Patience,that's a rough one.Its hard for a BS to deal with the betrayal.
The BS will rub it in and for a long time,the BS wants the WS to share in the pain.
My wife was on the ropes but never went down for the count.She was serious
about tryng to repair the damage.
Questions,my wife answered them over and over,for months and still does.
There is more that she did,I am at the point of 20 months post D day and I have
no regrets.
I know of some former BS's who feel the same here.
Anyone want to share the lenghts their former WS went to fix what they did?
Its nice to see success stories and positive stuff sometimes.
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It inspired me to start a threat about what a FWS does,says and actions that help
a BS heal,move forward and trust again.
So I guess I'm the first.
My wife saying "sorry" many times,every day and meaning it.That helped me.
Shame,I did'nt ask for it but it was evident that she felt it.
Self exposure,she told people wth no proding from me.
Patience,that's a rough one.Its hard for a BS to deal with the betrayal.
The BS will rub it in and for a long time,the BS wants the WS to share in the pain.
My wife was on the ropes but never went down for the count.She was serious
about tryng to repair the damage.
Questions,my wife answered them over and over,for months and still does.
There is more that she did,I am at the point of 20 months post D day and I have
no regrets.
I know of some former BS's who feel the same here.
Anyone want to share the lenghts their former WS went to fix what they did?
Its nice to see success stories and positive stuff sometimes.
Posted via Mobile Device
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