Every guy I've dated in the past told me how they felt in one way or another, So I never had to question anything as such. Me and the guy I'm seeing never discuss feelings, in fact we rarely have deep conversations. We have spoken about past relationships briefly, but not talked about what we want in a relationship etc to see if we are compatible. That being said we've spent a fair amount of time together and we are definitely compatible.
We have been going with the flow and I like how things are progressing.. Just not sure what his thoughts are.. He calls me a couple times a week and texts me pretty much everyday to say good morning (I have friends that do this from time to time). He will make plans for us to go out. I don't feel any pressure when I'm with him and I feel like he has taken time to understand me as a person. We flirt once in a blue moon. All he's really said is that I'm a sweet girl or I'm cute and the other day he started to say '' when I think of you.. '' but then tried to re-word the sentence when he caught on. He's mentioned things I'll start to notice in a few months down the line.
I used to wonder if he thought of me as a friend, but then he mentioned telling his friend his ex and the girl he's seeing (me) have the same name.
I'm not going to come right out and ask him..I don't wanna spoil things. How do you know what it is without asking? I know i have nothing to worry about but I wanna see if we are on the same page.
I think I'm going to ask what he wants in a relationship and take it from there?
*merry Christmas :)
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