Ok I am having a extremely difficult time. My wife and I separated after 5 years of marriage. After one month she became pregnant from another man. I didn't know until we're 4 months into the separation and I already filed. I was in the process of going through therapy because I was so depressed. I actually had a major affair and realized I made a major mistake. I wanted to tell her everything and ask forgiveness. The guilt was eating me from the inside out. A day after deciding to tell her I found out she was pregnant and it threw me into a deeper depression. I sat her down with my therapist and told her everything. She forgave me and we started to see each other. After a month she moved back in. She said the guy that knocked her up wanted nothing to do with the baby. She decided to keep the baby and wants me to be the father. This devastated me but I had to respect her decision. I really love her but I am having a hard time coping with ra ising another mans baby as my own. I want to be a bigger man and step up bc I can't stand to see my wife abandoned and raise this kiddo alone. She doesn't make much but I do. I feel like this boy is coming due to my decision to have a affair. Should I stay and suck it up? Should I call it for what it is and move forward with the divorce? We sent paperwork to the guy asking him to sign over all rights. No response after two weeks. Also I saw the guy and he is a loser. Not just saying that he is a dead beat hippie skinny nasty guy. That alone is messing with my head. Why would my wife want to sleep with this a hole much less have his baby? If anyone out there has been through this please let me know what happened in your situation and if you regretted your decision. Thanks for your feedback. My wife is really a sweet person and I still love her. This is so hard and I need to make a decision soon. Baby is coming in 2 months.
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