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Really clingy boy....how do I get him to back off without hurting his feelings?

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I met this boy on Monday because I was out shopping with a friend, and her boyfriend came to meet us with this boy who is friends with me. We talked for a while, and he seemed nice so we swapped numbers, and all of that night he was texting me. The same happened the next day, but this time he seemed quite annoyed because I had gone to the shops with another friend that he didn't know, so hadn't been able to text until about 6. Then he phoned me up, and we were on the phone for about 3 hours. I tried to say that I needed to go, but he kept me talking for ages. He was going on about his old girlfriend and how they broke up, and then he told me that he liked me and that we should see how things go after a couple of months. Then he invited me out on Saturday. Today, he has been texting me all day even though I'm at school. He woke me up really early by texting me, and then he was doing it through all of my lessons. He has text me 6 times today, and I only text him onc e to say that I needed to get on with my homework.

It sounds sort of bad, but I asked my mum to look him up on her system because she works at the college where he is at the moment (I'm in 6th form and he does a day a week at college, and then works all of the other days), and I found out that he lied about his age to me. He told me he was in Year 12 like me, but he is actually 18 or older.

I'm really not into him, but I think he's got the idea that I really like him. I don't want to go out with him on Saturday, but it has been arranged now. I find him way too clingy and full on, a little bit creepy to be honest.

The problem is, I really don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to carry on talking to him. I've thought about blocking his number, as he doesn't have any other way of contacting me, but I thought that would be rude. What should I do?

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