Hi All,
I have been with my husband for 5 years in total, married for One.
During our dating era and up to this day, we had/ have problems because the way and how often, almost daily, he and his female coworkers communicate ( which they are not in the same location or city than him ).
They are very much on their own, but having a Manager that oversees them , individually. So, his protests about that he needs the communication to get the job done, it is totally ridiculous.
I have a problem with the way they go back and for in daily texts, where they talk about what they have been doing in the weekend, for dinner o for fun. They joke around in a very single kind of way, unnecessary and many times inappropriate, like:
I am looking forward to seeing you,
I can't wait to see you,
I can't wait to get to the bar and get smashed
I have to come and visit and party, we only live once.
He travels for meetings and party with them.
In addition, he has two favorites that he phones and talks with them often, the whole time we have been in the relationship.
They are in their 30's the majority, and most of them single.
My husband is in his 40s so do I.
It is creating a lot of problems because he doesn't understand my discomfort and I am being called all kind of names. While he just screams, deletes everything,and blocked me from FB.
Our intimacy and bonding is deteriorating to the point that I am considering Divorce.
We went to Counseling and the Counselor did not say anything at all, one way or the other, seriously. After 6 visits, we stopped going.
Any advice?
Thank you.
I have been with my husband for 5 years in total, married for One.
During our dating era and up to this day, we had/ have problems because the way and how often, almost daily, he and his female coworkers communicate ( which they are not in the same location or city than him ).
They are very much on their own, but having a Manager that oversees them , individually. So, his protests about that he needs the communication to get the job done, it is totally ridiculous.
I have a problem with the way they go back and for in daily texts, where they talk about what they have been doing in the weekend, for dinner o for fun. They joke around in a very single kind of way, unnecessary and many times inappropriate, like:
I am looking forward to seeing you,
I can't wait to see you,
I can't wait to get to the bar and get smashed
I have to come and visit and party, we only live once.
He travels for meetings and party with them.
In addition, he has two favorites that he phones and talks with them often, the whole time we have been in the relationship.
They are in their 30's the majority, and most of them single.
My husband is in his 40s so do I.
It is creating a lot of problems because he doesn't understand my discomfort and I am being called all kind of names. While he just screams, deletes everything,and blocked me from FB.
Our intimacy and bonding is deteriorating to the point that I am considering Divorce.
We went to Counseling and the Counselor did not say anything at all, one way or the other, seriously. After 6 visits, we stopped going.
Any advice?
Thank you.
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