So, my boyfriend of a few years now has always had feminine tendencies, but honestly I have been noticing it more than ever now. Let me give a few examples.
1 .He used to be obsessed with a male singer, and I mean obsessed as in he wanted to do everything to be like him, had merchandise of him, and went to concerts listened to his music etc. (I rather not say the singer's name, but I'm sure most people know him :P. Guess if you would like. He's young and has mostly a teenage girl following).
2. He is very sensitive. Hear me out, I know guys could be sensitive, and there's nothing wrong with that.. But he is even more sensitive than any woman I have ever met.
3. He is obsessed with bunnies. Yes, Bunnies. He LOVES them. He has one that has lived with him for a few years, (I rather not say her name, kinda embarrassing. But honestly it sounds like something a 9 year old girl would name a pet.) And he buys "dresses" for it, and even lets it sleep in his bed. It does not have a cage, he just lets the thing walk around freely and gets mad at anyone who doesn't treat it like a "princess". And he always tells me about his dream of owning a BUNNY FARM. Not joking.
4. He loves cleaning, even though he is lazy. He also loves picking out outfits, one night a few years ago he even picked out an outfit for each day of the month. And yes, he must make sure they all match.
5. He gets along mostly with women. I do not get jealous because I do see the way he interacts, its very obvious he seems more like a "gay best friend" to them.
6. A long time ago, he was VERY very drunk and began talking about how sexy and hot some male celebrities are.. in front of all of our friends.
If any of you have any questions or want more examples, I could gladly give them to you..
And now I'm going to put a few things out there, in his defense.
1. When he was a teenager he as a major player, I knew him then and was fully aware of it. (Obviously we weren't together)
2. He was also a huge sports player. He played on a few sports teams at his school.
3. He doesn't like his son acting feminine (ironic, huh??) and yes, he has a son. Not mine, it kinda goes along with #1 up there ^^
I want to put out there that he has major father issues, and obviously, was raised by his mother alone, and I do think that might have something to do with his feminine ways. I honestly do not think he is gay, but I do think transgender MIGHT be a possibility.. Any advice, tips, or anything like that? I could not talk to him about it, he is very sensitive like I said earlier on, especially about anything personal like this which he may take the wrong way. Your opinions would be very helpful :). (Im so sorry for posting this on a marriage site, but to be fair we are in a very serious relationship.)
1 .He used to be obsessed with a male singer, and I mean obsessed as in he wanted to do everything to be like him, had merchandise of him, and went to concerts listened to his music etc. (I rather not say the singer's name, but I'm sure most people know him :P. Guess if you would like. He's young and has mostly a teenage girl following).
2. He is very sensitive. Hear me out, I know guys could be sensitive, and there's nothing wrong with that.. But he is even more sensitive than any woman I have ever met.
3. He is obsessed with bunnies. Yes, Bunnies. He LOVES them. He has one that has lived with him for a few years, (I rather not say her name, kinda embarrassing. But honestly it sounds like something a 9 year old girl would name a pet.) And he buys "dresses" for it, and even lets it sleep in his bed. It does not have a cage, he just lets the thing walk around freely and gets mad at anyone who doesn't treat it like a "princess". And he always tells me about his dream of owning a BUNNY FARM. Not joking.
4. He loves cleaning, even though he is lazy. He also loves picking out outfits, one night a few years ago he even picked out an outfit for each day of the month. And yes, he must make sure they all match.
5. He gets along mostly with women. I do not get jealous because I do see the way he interacts, its very obvious he seems more like a "gay best friend" to them.
6. A long time ago, he was VERY very drunk and began talking about how sexy and hot some male celebrities are.. in front of all of our friends.
If any of you have any questions or want more examples, I could gladly give them to you..
And now I'm going to put a few things out there, in his defense.
1. When he was a teenager he as a major player, I knew him then and was fully aware of it. (Obviously we weren't together)
2. He was also a huge sports player. He played on a few sports teams at his school.
3. He doesn't like his son acting feminine (ironic, huh??) and yes, he has a son. Not mine, it kinda goes along with #1 up there ^^
I want to put out there that he has major father issues, and obviously, was raised by his mother alone, and I do think that might have something to do with his feminine ways. I honestly do not think he is gay, but I do think transgender MIGHT be a possibility.. Any advice, tips, or anything like that? I could not talk to him about it, he is very sensitive like I said earlier on, especially about anything personal like this which he may take the wrong way. Your opinions would be very helpful :). (Im so sorry for posting this on a marriage site, but to be fair we are in a very serious relationship.)
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