Posting, reading, visiting. I brought up how I thought it had helped me with some things and both my IC and our MC told me this is a very dangerous place. They both had the same advice. They said this place was full of a lot of people where things went very badly and they're still very bitter and wouldn't give good advice. They advised me to stick with the pro's. I just thought you guys would like to know that A.) at least these "pro's" have heard of TAM and B.) they don't like it and tell their clients to stay off it.
I'll admit, as I read some of these incredibly sad stories it kind of drudges back up negative feelings in me that I'm trying to work through and it might not be healthy for me to dwell on the sadness.
Of course I don't think you guys are amateurs. You share your own experiences, actions, and results and I appreciate that. I may pop back in but I'm committed to this R so if they suggest I stay off this site then I'll respect that for a month or so.
A quick update. We had a good weekend. Wife and I went to the grocery together for the first time in a couple years. Just little stuff like that, nothing serious, but it was fun. Daughter would not go. She's still too angry. Still, another decent weekend under our belts.
I'll admit, as I read some of these incredibly sad stories it kind of drudges back up negative feelings in me that I'm trying to work through and it might not be healthy for me to dwell on the sadness.
Of course I don't think you guys are amateurs. You share your own experiences, actions, and results and I appreciate that. I may pop back in but I'm committed to this R so if they suggest I stay off this site then I'll respect that for a month or so.
A quick update. We had a good weekend. Wife and I went to the grocery together for the first time in a couple years. Just little stuff like that, nothing serious, but it was fun. Daughter would not go. She's still too angry. Still, another decent weekend under our belts.
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