Hi Guys,
Going through a tough time now dating a woman for 8 months now, started a few months after separation from WW, now divorced.
I am struggling to fall for this new woman despite having great chemistry, great sex and a fantastic relationship.
She isn't miss universe and her body is not normally what I would turn around for in the street.
I know this sounds terribly shallow, but here is the question;
Does anyone else feel like they need to be with a much hotter woman/man than they were with when married?
I don't know what this NEED is, but it creates a lot of stress in my life and is really quite unrealistic.
I don't know whether it is a sense of entitlement (a reward for being hurt), or simply that to ENSURE the next relationship works she has to be HOT, or is it to ensure I am able to fall for that woman after being hurt.
Anyone had the same experience and did you grow out of it or leave a less attractive "nice" person from someone hotter who isn't nice?
Going through a tough time now dating a woman for 8 months now, started a few months after separation from WW, now divorced.
I am struggling to fall for this new woman despite having great chemistry, great sex and a fantastic relationship.
She isn't miss universe and her body is not normally what I would turn around for in the street.
I know this sounds terribly shallow, but here is the question;
Does anyone else feel like they need to be with a much hotter woman/man than they were with when married?
I don't know what this NEED is, but it creates a lot of stress in my life and is really quite unrealistic.
I don't know whether it is a sense of entitlement (a reward for being hurt), or simply that to ENSURE the next relationship works she has to be HOT, or is it to ensure I am able to fall for that woman after being hurt.
Anyone had the same experience and did you grow out of it or leave a less attractive "nice" person from someone hotter who isn't nice?
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