I have a question mainly for the men here. Ladies you may answer on your mans behalf if you would like. Which of these give you guys a since of being feeling wanted and loved by your wife. Sex, BJ's, or hand J's. Or do they all equal in how much they make you feel loved.
The reason I ask is because me and my H don't particularly get along, in fact our relationship has deteriorated quite a lot. Infact there is little left of it. After having T today the T suggested that I refrain from having sex with my H because it send him mixed messages. I am really considering leaving. She says don't send him mixed signals and I agree. But I know he is not going to go for no sex in the upcoming weeks. That is why I ask this question. He doesn't HAVE to have sex but a hand J will do. But my main concern is by doing this for him does that show my devotion to him and my love for him more then sex does. I personally would rather have sex, and just get it over with. It does nothing for me anyway and I can just give it to him to pacify him.
Any advice here would be helpful. He is used to me just giving in to him to meet his needs. He knows it does little for me.
The reason I ask is because me and my H don't particularly get along, in fact our relationship has deteriorated quite a lot. Infact there is little left of it. After having T today the T suggested that I refrain from having sex with my H because it send him mixed messages. I am really considering leaving. She says don't send him mixed signals and I agree. But I know he is not going to go for no sex in the upcoming weeks. That is why I ask this question. He doesn't HAVE to have sex but a hand J will do. But my main concern is by doing this for him does that show my devotion to him and my love for him more then sex does. I personally would rather have sex, and just get it over with. It does nothing for me anyway and I can just give it to him to pacify him.
Any advice here would be helpful. He is used to me just giving in to him to meet his needs. He knows it does little for me.
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