Met a lady in church today that said she is eternally grateful that her husbands ex ran off with another man. They were married for 7 years and after the 5th child was born she up and left. She had been talking to an ex boyfriend for months and he made her feel special and forgot what being a wife and mother was about. They divorced and she did not want the kids so it was an easy split. The deal was her husband got everything in the deal if he granted a clean and fast divorce. Fast forward 4 years and they have a wonderful family. She is grateful everyday that his ex wife cheated on him. She not only helped heal him but also gave her a real chance in raising children since she is not able to have any which helped cause her divorce from her first husband as he fathered 3 with two different women behind her back. She mentioned that the ex of her husband actually knocked on the door one day and her husband let her in and she started off by saying she made a huge mistake and asked if there was a chance for her to come home and make things right. Then from the kitchen comes herself and he introduces her to his ex wife and the ex leaves without saying a word, goes to her car and sobs for over 2 hours. Turns out the guy she left her family for had 3 other girlfriends while they were living together. She had bounced from relationship to relationship and eventually ended up back home living with her parents during much of the last 4 years. After no contact for 4 years she comes back thinking she can just continue where she left off. Now she is claiming this lady has stolen her family from her. Yet she does not know how much pain her husband and children went through. He is wonderful father and loving husband from what she said. You just do not throw your family away like garbage and expect different results. There are a lot of things I would like to say to this women....like "How would you like to be one of those children in that the ir mom chose to be with a boyfriend instead of being there when you needed them the most while growing up?":scratchhead:
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