I hate to admit to being a little paranoid, but my spidey sense has me worried and I want to know if I am out of line.
My wife has cheated before in our marriage. Reconciliation has been rocky at times and I have had trouble letting go of the past while trying to move forward.
My wife likes to talk about her workday when she gets home and sometimes has a funny story about whatever this IT guy did, or something about that off-beat maintenance guy she has to deal with occasionally. That's fine.
However, there is one guy she talks about occasionally, but she seems to go out of her way to describe him in negative terms. He drives a new truck but it's already beat up. He's not friendly. Not polite. He's dour. Doesn't seem to talk much with people. She says she doesn't have much contact with him. My brother was in high school with this guy and has described him as an outstanding track athlete.
Ok. Maybe he is genuinely a negative personality that turns her off.
Or, is she attracted to him and trying to make me think otherwise?
Am I making a mountain out of a mole-hill, or am I on to something I should pay attention to?
My wife has cheated before in our marriage. Reconciliation has been rocky at times and I have had trouble letting go of the past while trying to move forward.
My wife likes to talk about her workday when she gets home and sometimes has a funny story about whatever this IT guy did, or something about that off-beat maintenance guy she has to deal with occasionally. That's fine.
However, there is one guy she talks about occasionally, but she seems to go out of her way to describe him in negative terms. He drives a new truck but it's already beat up. He's not friendly. Not polite. He's dour. Doesn't seem to talk much with people. She says she doesn't have much contact with him. My brother was in high school with this guy and has described him as an outstanding track athlete.
Ok. Maybe he is genuinely a negative personality that turns her off.
Or, is she attracted to him and trying to make me think otherwise?
Am I making a mountain out of a mole-hill, or am I on to something I should pay attention to?
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