Ok so I've read quite a few threads of late from certain men who seem to be having trouble with this. Being the generous person that I am, I have decided to compile a list of traits and behaviours that will make that special girl smile. That's the key to this, women like to have fun. It's good to see a woman happy, care-free and enjoying herself in your presence.
It's also good to see the jealous faces of other men who try and fail with these same women. Really does feel good when your stood in a warm embrace with a girl who thinks you are awesome and can't stop smiling while she's giving other men the cold shoulder and rejecting them left and right.
In short:-
Lift - Not to make women attracted to your body as such but for your own self-esteem. This is massive. The fact that you are starting to respect yourself by doing something healthy will also effect your treatment of other people and expectations from them in their turn. Basically, you will have more mutual respect with people.
Laugh - It's good to talk about things that are amusing so you can include the woman in these good emotions. If all a woman has to do is stand there and have a good time and laugh then of course her anxiety and nervousness will disappear and she will want to stay with you. Women laughing is good. Some of them have musical, angelic laughs that are incredibly sexy and soothing. I love women with sexy laughs.
Honesty - This does not mean you have to make a full confession regarding that time you shoplifted sweets from the shop as a kid, or let down the tyres on a bus and everyone had to get off. No no no! You must be honest in the sense that you are open about whatever you're feeling. If you're happy, act happy. If you're embarrassed, act embarrassed. If you're upset, act upset. If you're angry, act angry.
Don't worry about concealing bad emotions to make a good impression; honesty is a much better gift than fake happiness.
Compliments - You will often get advised not to do this, especially if the girl is exceptionally attractive. People will assume she has a massive ego and hears compliments all the time. You have my permission to ignore such advice. A compliment about how beautiful / stunning / attractive she is acknowledges the effort she has made with her hair, clothes and make-up. Women invest much in looking their best and looking sexy and it's good to acknowledge it because it also means she is now aware that you communicating to her as a woman and not just a person. I.e. this could be the difference between a flirty conversation and just a nice but boring conversation.
Vulnerability - It's good to let women in on some of your vulnerabilities and insecurities. There are very good with this sort of thing, much better than your mates or your family. I think it is the nurturing quality many girls have. This can often be the best thing about them and makes their presence in your life worth every second. Don't make the insecurities their problem but if you can be vulnerable with woman and she forgives you for it then you will feel compelled to do the same for her whenever she is feeling down about something and your connection will get much stronger.
Sex - During sex it's much, much better to forget about yourself and your own pleasure and just focus on her. Let's be honest, there's nothing that sexy about a man who is being pleasured. A man receiving a BJ just stands there and enjoys it. Nay. Sex is all about the woman's pleasure. Just learn whatever it is she prefers and give her lots of it. Oral, finger-****, one hour of foreplay, loads of dirty talk and dominance or whatever it takes. Find out what she likes. It's important that she gets pleasured. Life can be quite dull sometimes and being an excellent and selfless lover who only care about her pleasure can help her feel alive again. Ideally she should not want to ever leave your bed.
It's also good to see the jealous faces of other men who try and fail with these same women. Really does feel good when your stood in a warm embrace with a girl who thinks you are awesome and can't stop smiling while she's giving other men the cold shoulder and rejecting them left and right.
In short:-
Lift - Not to make women attracted to your body as such but for your own self-esteem. This is massive. The fact that you are starting to respect yourself by doing something healthy will also effect your treatment of other people and expectations from them in their turn. Basically, you will have more mutual respect with people.
Laugh - It's good to talk about things that are amusing so you can include the woman in these good emotions. If all a woman has to do is stand there and have a good time and laugh then of course her anxiety and nervousness will disappear and she will want to stay with you. Women laughing is good. Some of them have musical, angelic laughs that are incredibly sexy and soothing. I love women with sexy laughs.
Honesty - This does not mean you have to make a full confession regarding that time you shoplifted sweets from the shop as a kid, or let down the tyres on a bus and everyone had to get off. No no no! You must be honest in the sense that you are open about whatever you're feeling. If you're happy, act happy. If you're embarrassed, act embarrassed. If you're upset, act upset. If you're angry, act angry.
Don't worry about concealing bad emotions to make a good impression; honesty is a much better gift than fake happiness.
Compliments - You will often get advised not to do this, especially if the girl is exceptionally attractive. People will assume she has a massive ego and hears compliments all the time. You have my permission to ignore such advice. A compliment about how beautiful / stunning / attractive she is acknowledges the effort she has made with her hair, clothes and make-up. Women invest much in looking their best and looking sexy and it's good to acknowledge it because it also means she is now aware that you communicating to her as a woman and not just a person. I.e. this could be the difference between a flirty conversation and just a nice but boring conversation.
Vulnerability - It's good to let women in on some of your vulnerabilities and insecurities. There are very good with this sort of thing, much better than your mates or your family. I think it is the nurturing quality many girls have. This can often be the best thing about them and makes their presence in your life worth every second. Don't make the insecurities their problem but if you can be vulnerable with woman and she forgives you for it then you will feel compelled to do the same for her whenever she is feeling down about something and your connection will get much stronger.
Sex - During sex it's much, much better to forget about yourself and your own pleasure and just focus on her. Let's be honest, there's nothing that sexy about a man who is being pleasured. A man receiving a BJ just stands there and enjoys it. Nay. Sex is all about the woman's pleasure. Just learn whatever it is she prefers and give her lots of it. Oral, finger-****, one hour of foreplay, loads of dirty talk and dominance or whatever it takes. Find out what she likes. It's important that she gets pleasured. Life can be quite dull sometimes and being an excellent and selfless lover who only care about her pleasure can help her feel alive again. Ideally she should not want to ever leave your bed.
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