I'm not sure what to do from here and I really need help. I have been married for 20 years, kids grown and moved out. My husband had emotional problems in the past and was very abusive to me (emotionally, never physically). After 10 years of this I finally left the marriage. We didn't divorce. While we were separated I started seeing another man. I know this was wrong because I was still married and I take full responsibility for my actions.
We have been back together now for 2 years. I told him about the other man. Obviously, this was hard for him. He still has a hard time with this and continues to tell me how bad I hurt him and that we could have a good marriage if I hadnt cheated on him. He says he is sorry for the way he treated me in the past and I believe he is.
Over the past year, I caught him texting other women and signing on to adult web sites. (as far as I know) he has never met up with anyone or had a PA. When I confronted him, he apologized and promised it would not happen again and he did it because of his hurt and he is now insecure. However, I did find out he has recently signed on to another adult webiste. He doesnt know I know about it and he hasnt gone farther than signing on.
I look over it all because of the guilt I have of what I did.
He says he loves me and wants our marriage to work and I want the same. We cant afford MC.
I am very sorry for what I did but I dont want to pay for my sin the rest of my life. Will he ever be able to move past it? How do I help him? Is there any hope for our marriage?
We have been back together now for 2 years. I told him about the other man. Obviously, this was hard for him. He still has a hard time with this and continues to tell me how bad I hurt him and that we could have a good marriage if I hadnt cheated on him. He says he is sorry for the way he treated me in the past and I believe he is.
Over the past year, I caught him texting other women and signing on to adult web sites. (as far as I know) he has never met up with anyone or had a PA. When I confronted him, he apologized and promised it would not happen again and he did it because of his hurt and he is now insecure. However, I did find out he has recently signed on to another adult webiste. He doesnt know I know about it and he hasnt gone farther than signing on.
I look over it all because of the guilt I have of what I did.
He says he loves me and wants our marriage to work and I want the same. We cant afford MC.
I am very sorry for what I did but I dont want to pay for my sin the rest of my life. Will he ever be able to move past it? How do I help him? Is there any hope for our marriage?
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