Okay, so I've been married for almost eight years and my Wife and I are on the verge of divorce. One of our major issues is our parenting style. I believe that spanking is necessary, while she wants to baby her. For instance our Daughter(5 yrs) has a habit of not responding/ignoring us(mainly me) until I either get in her face or physically force her to listen and do as I say. My Wifes response to this is to stop me and yell at me in front of our Daughter. I believe this is counter-productive and only hurts the situation. I've talked to her about this and I've repeatedly said "If we can meet some where in the middle and tackle our daughters behavior issues it would improve our relationship". The problem is she doesn't want to budge.
My other issues are that I literally do everything around the house...cleaning, dishes, dinner, laundry, mowing, etc. I've asked her repeatedly to help me and she usually gives me a excuse as to why she can't or couldn't do anything. I understand that she works midnights but, I don't think asking her to throw her laundry in a basket or making sure her dishes end up in the sink is asking a lot.
I know that you are only hearing one side of the story, but I really need help with how to deal/cope with this. If you need more details please ask and I will respond when I can. Thank you so much.
My other issues are that I literally do everything around the house...cleaning, dishes, dinner, laundry, mowing, etc. I've asked her repeatedly to help me and she usually gives me a excuse as to why she can't or couldn't do anything. I understand that she works midnights but, I don't think asking her to throw her laundry in a basket or making sure her dishes end up in the sink is asking a lot.
I know that you are only hearing one side of the story, but I really need help with how to deal/cope with this. If you need more details please ask and I will respond when I can. Thank you so much.
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