I like a nice girl on my course. Let me call her Sandra. She has a beautiful personality and is very pretty. I think she knows that I like her but I'm not sure.
Today, I was having lunch in a group which included her. She invited me to have group lunch with some of our mutual friends. During lunch, I unconsciously started looking at her and then she covered her face with her food pack. Then one of our mutual female "friend" said I was looking at her because I thought she is beautiful and that I care a lot about her (Sandra.). I didn't see her make any expression- maybe that doesn't matter.
Also, whenever I talk to her, she almost never gives me eye contact. I talked to her about this once and she said maybe it's because I am a boy. But then, I have noticed that she gives other boys eye contact.
I am always the one initiating hugs and whenever I flirt with her, she never flirts back but I've seen her smile a few times, while other times she shows no expression. She initiates hugs with other guys and even gives flirty touch (maybe friendly not flirty, not sure).
She is not a shy girl (I am very sure about this) but I have noticed that her behaviour towards me is very different to other people that she knows (even guys). She mostly never talks to me in a group- it's like I don't exist. I am usually the one starting conversations even though she is not a quiet girl.
She has only initiated text with me twice. Once to say "heyy" and another time "to ask me if I got home ok" because we got on the same bus after a society meeting and she got off first. I initiate most of our text conversations. Sometimes she replies quickly. Other times, she takes time to reply.
My head tells me that she doesn't like me and that I should give up to save myself the embarrassment of getting rejected. While my mind tells me to try because I sincerely love this girl. I don't love girls easily. I'm 20 and she is the second girl I've ever loved in my life. I didn't ask the first one because I didn't have the balls in secondary school. I think I'm very confident now but I just need advice on what to do.
Why does she behave strange to me? Is it because she knows I like her and she does not want to lead me on? Or what?
Is she just being nice to still talk to me even though she isn't interested (I think she isn't). Should I stop the chase even though I love her?
Thanks. And sorry for the long post. Please ask me questions if you need clarity on the situation.
Today, I was having lunch in a group which included her. She invited me to have group lunch with some of our mutual friends. During lunch, I unconsciously started looking at her and then she covered her face with her food pack. Then one of our mutual female "friend" said I was looking at her because I thought she is beautiful and that I care a lot about her (Sandra.). I didn't see her make any expression- maybe that doesn't matter.
Also, whenever I talk to her, she almost never gives me eye contact. I talked to her about this once and she said maybe it's because I am a boy. But then, I have noticed that she gives other boys eye contact.
I am always the one initiating hugs and whenever I flirt with her, she never flirts back but I've seen her smile a few times, while other times she shows no expression. She initiates hugs with other guys and even gives flirty touch (maybe friendly not flirty, not sure).
She is not a shy girl (I am very sure about this) but I have noticed that her behaviour towards me is very different to other people that she knows (even guys). She mostly never talks to me in a group- it's like I don't exist. I am usually the one starting conversations even though she is not a quiet girl.
She has only initiated text with me twice. Once to say "heyy" and another time "to ask me if I got home ok" because we got on the same bus after a society meeting and she got off first. I initiate most of our text conversations. Sometimes she replies quickly. Other times, she takes time to reply.
My head tells me that she doesn't like me and that I should give up to save myself the embarrassment of getting rejected. While my mind tells me to try because I sincerely love this girl. I don't love girls easily. I'm 20 and she is the second girl I've ever loved in my life. I didn't ask the first one because I didn't have the balls in secondary school. I think I'm very confident now but I just need advice on what to do.
Why does she behave strange to me? Is it because she knows I like her and she does not want to lead me on? Or what?
Is she just being nice to still talk to me even though she isn't interested (I think she isn't). Should I stop the chase even though I love her?
Thanks. And sorry for the long post. Please ask me questions if you need clarity on the situation.
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