Hi, I'm a 21-year old virgin (yay!) and this is partly due to 2 things:
i) Low self-esteem
ii) Scared of sexual intercourse and physical intimacy
I've got various issues about having sex.
-Am I physically attractive to my partner?
-Am I going to get/keep it up
-How do I keep my partner entertained (techniques, positions etc.; not asking for any but on a theroetical level)
-What if I accidentally get them pregnant?
-(this is the troubling one) I'm leaving myself vulnerable here, what if they knife me in my sleep/when I'm down?
Now I don't think the girl I'm with right now would do anything so drastic but still there's this concern. She's my first real relationship too, before that I didn't trust many people at all to have a romantic relationship with them.
I find it hard to trust people and I'm not sure when my walls are going to come down to the poiint I'm prepare to have sex. It's really embarrassing.
What should I do?
i) Low self-esteem
ii) Scared of sexual intercourse and physical intimacy
I've got various issues about having sex.
-Am I physically attractive to my partner?
-Am I going to get/keep it up
-How do I keep my partner entertained (techniques, positions etc.; not asking for any but on a theroetical level)
-What if I accidentally get them pregnant?
-(this is the troubling one) I'm leaving myself vulnerable here, what if they knife me in my sleep/when I'm down?
Now I don't think the girl I'm with right now would do anything so drastic but still there's this concern. She's my first real relationship too, before that I didn't trust many people at all to have a romantic relationship with them.
I find it hard to trust people and I'm not sure when my walls are going to come down to the poiint I'm prepare to have sex. It's really embarrassing.
What should I do?
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