Hello i been meeting my girlfriend for 2 months currently up until about 4 days ago where she wanted space.
We have never argued everything was great always joking about but the reasons for her wanting space was when we was out one day we started talking about things and she stated that when shes on a nightout rarely happens but it does that she does "cocaine" to get that buzz with her friends.
I dont tolerate this so said were over take me home i cant do this she took me home and was confused and also trying to speka to me but i just didnt have anything to say.
When i got home i felt sick and rang her as i didnt wanna lose her and felt like i had over reacted and made a big mistake.
She didnt wanna hear it and was kicking off on the phone saying im so immature and childish and she dont no if she wants this now when only the day before we agreed to get together to give us ago!.
She was coming out with things like you need to grow up.
I no recently she has lost a work client (death) and said to me just before we argued that she was goin back on anti depressants.
Im so confused i no i made a big mistake and tried my best to apologize without coming on as needy on the phone but she wasnt having any of it ,
She stated that she needs space i said does this mean we stay together? she said "i duno".
I said okay do you want me to leave you alone and both move on or ill give you a few days to yourself no contact see how you feel then.
She agreed that she is sure she wants the few days to herself rather than me leave her alone.
Its been 4 days now and im unsure what to do?
Is this on me to contact her to ask to meet up to talk or am i to wait for her to contact me?.
I dont wanna leave it to long to where she doesnt think i dont care anymore as this was all on me and i do miss her alot .
Were both 22 so not kids but the way i acted was that of one so i understand her for bein mad.
Help be much appreiated thankyou
We have never argued everything was great always joking about but the reasons for her wanting space was when we was out one day we started talking about things and she stated that when shes on a nightout rarely happens but it does that she does "cocaine" to get that buzz with her friends.
I dont tolerate this so said were over take me home i cant do this she took me home and was confused and also trying to speka to me but i just didnt have anything to say.
When i got home i felt sick and rang her as i didnt wanna lose her and felt like i had over reacted and made a big mistake.
She didnt wanna hear it and was kicking off on the phone saying im so immature and childish and she dont no if she wants this now when only the day before we agreed to get together to give us ago!.
She was coming out with things like you need to grow up.
I no recently she has lost a work client (death) and said to me just before we argued that she was goin back on anti depressants.
Im so confused i no i made a big mistake and tried my best to apologize without coming on as needy on the phone but she wasnt having any of it ,
She stated that she needs space i said does this mean we stay together? she said "i duno".
I said okay do you want me to leave you alone and both move on or ill give you a few days to yourself no contact see how you feel then.
She agreed that she is sure she wants the few days to herself rather than me leave her alone.
Its been 4 days now and im unsure what to do?
Is this on me to contact her to ask to meet up to talk or am i to wait for her to contact me?.
I dont wanna leave it to long to where she doesnt think i dont care anymore as this was all on me and i do miss her alot .
Were both 22 so not kids but the way i acted was that of one so i understand her for bein mad.
Help be much appreiated thankyou
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