My wife and I have been together for 6 years. When we first met she was an animal towards me....would attack me at first sight, ripping my clothes off! About 6 months later I moved in with her, then this stopped completely. She began to have this attitude towards sex that "I was lucky to get it when I get it".....and that attitude progressively got worse, to the point of on our wedding night....a hurry up and get it done.
On our honeymoon, it happened once and then became a "you're only happy because you got your own way" type of attitude towards sex, and then she would now carry a chip on her shoulder because she gave me sex. This attitude is present today. Sure I was happy thinking she wanted me sexually, but her attitude of me only being happy because she gave it to me killed it.
I have never had a partner have this attitude towards sex. What other things does she have this attitude towards me with? It doesn't equate to me....and leaves me questioning, I'm sorry....she chose to marry me for?
Now I will own that I used to get bent if it didn't happen and act like a child throwing hissy fit and start up the stonewall....that's about as unattractive as it gets. I know this now. This kind of behavior from me does not happen today, and hasn't for about a year. Unfortunately I didn't know any better at the time previous.
When I met her I was 245lbs pure chubb, I have been exercising daily and am 195lbs and fairly muscular, with great stamina of around 200 push-ups a day. I dress well, I receive compliments from men and women about how great I look. When another woman is complimenting how great I look, it seems to anger her. Her girlfriends/ my friends girlfriends and wives all tell her what a hunk I am etc... I send her flirty sext messages, telling her things I love about her, organize things for us to do, date nights, I do a majority of the house work (we both work/ no kids), I cook, etc...
Her attitude has not change any towards me. She's been seeing a therapist for her "outbursts" and attitude for 6 months or more. Her view of this has not changed at all, even though her therapist has told her she needs to work on this.....she still refuses to.
Ladies, WTF happened when I moved in with her over 5 years ago to start this?
On our honeymoon, it happened once and then became a "you're only happy because you got your own way" type of attitude towards sex, and then she would now carry a chip on her shoulder because she gave me sex. This attitude is present today. Sure I was happy thinking she wanted me sexually, but her attitude of me only being happy because she gave it to me killed it.
I have never had a partner have this attitude towards sex. What other things does she have this attitude towards me with? It doesn't equate to me....and leaves me questioning, I'm sorry....she chose to marry me for?
Now I will own that I used to get bent if it didn't happen and act like a child throwing hissy fit and start up the stonewall....that's about as unattractive as it gets. I know this now. This kind of behavior from me does not happen today, and hasn't for about a year. Unfortunately I didn't know any better at the time previous.
When I met her I was 245lbs pure chubb, I have been exercising daily and am 195lbs and fairly muscular, with great stamina of around 200 push-ups a day. I dress well, I receive compliments from men and women about how great I look. When another woman is complimenting how great I look, it seems to anger her. Her girlfriends/ my friends girlfriends and wives all tell her what a hunk I am etc... I send her flirty sext messages, telling her things I love about her, organize things for us to do, date nights, I do a majority of the house work (we both work/ no kids), I cook, etc...
Her attitude has not change any towards me. She's been seeing a therapist for her "outbursts" and attitude for 6 months or more. Her view of this has not changed at all, even though her therapist has told her she needs to work on this.....she still refuses to.
Ladies, WTF happened when I moved in with her over 5 years ago to start this?
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