Wife won't be intimate until she has breast implants...

Hey guys, I am so frustrated. I posted a while back under a different account but things are still bad. Basically the back story is this: My wife and I have not had sex in over 2 years (been married 6). It's just non-existent, and has been for some time. I work full-time as well as freelance while she stays home with the kids. About a year ago she started talking about breast implants. As a mother who breast fed two kids she feels like doing that "destroyed her body". OK. I can respect that. I don't diminish that feeling, it's just her tactics. Moving on... So one day about 3 months ago she started talking about it as if it was happening already. We discussed it in passing, but never made a decision. I pushed back saying "Well, maybe we can't do it THIS year, but let's see" and she said "I'm doing it in November with or without you." OK. So I tried to approach it differently and said "well, i understand you, but we have had some issues (she threatens to leave me every time we argue) and I think we have to be tempered with such a decision. Her response: "Well I'm not having sex until I have them. Are you OK with that?" What was I supposed to say? I said "If that's what you will do, I don't have a choice, so yeah, i guess. I can't make money appear" Anyway, we ignored me for five days for disrespecting her. I just felt like her tactic kept escalating until she was withholding sex. Trying to me it a priority for me. Now all these months later she brings it up in the context of me finding extra work to pay for them. We have two young kids who will need educations, weddings, and even though it's "only 5% of my salary" i find it to be a ludicrous expense considering we have zero saved. I am here because the years of manipulation and emotional games have me second guessing everything. i need a woman's perspective... Guys, what would you do? It's not that I don't like boobs, it's that I feel manipulated. I don't care about her getting them, it's not for me. If we were rich, than hey, go crazy, but it's just a little odd to me. Thoughts?

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