The writing on the wall

My wife and I have been having issues for the last year or so, with finances being the main cause. During this time, we had a 6 month separation. Around Xmas, the returned home with my 1 1/2 year old daughter. She is currently a stay at home mom and has been since our baby's birth. After getting the "I'm not in love with you anymore" talk, I suggested that we try to go to marriage counseling in an attempt to save our marriage. She agreed, saying that she didn't want people to think we didn't try (which was kind of a red flag to me). After printing off a list of counselors in our area and giving it to her, she has yet to even look at it. She says she wants to research them before deciding. It has now been over a month since I gave her the list. Each time I ask her about it, I get "I'm going to do that tomorrow", but it never happens. I am in the process of filing bankruptcy and it should be finalized within the next couple of weeks. She has made comments here and there without really coming out and saying that she is going to file for divorce that makes me think that she is waiting until everything is final and will then lower the boom, so to speak. There is no intimacy what-so-ever and I don't even get a "How was your day?" after getting home from work. We still talk, but mainly about our daughter and current event type things. It seems we are nothing more than roommates and I am uncertain about what she has planned. Anyone got any guidance?

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