In 100 years, I will never understand why cheaters just don't confess to cheating. I don't get it. If I cheated on my husband, I would feel compelled to spill my guts and confess what I did. I would never be able to hold this secret inside. Never.
I hear and read countless stories of people cheating on their spouse and they will never admit to it. Even if there is significant evidence. They would rather take it to their grave. I don't get it.
Someone please explain this to me.
I have "some" suspicions that my husband cheated on me years ago, but I don't have the "smoking gun"... I have begged, pleaded, and prayed that he would tell me the truth. He will still not admit to cheating on me. I hate living in limbo. I hate not knowing the truth or the facts. I hate not knowing if my marriage is based on lies and secrets.
I have been on TAM for a long time now. Not sure if my suspicions & fear have grown from his previous past lies. I am not sure that forums such as TAM has made me a tad paranoid. IDK
What I do know is that I could never keep cheating a secret from my spouse. No matter what. Even if it meant we would end up divorcing. The worst truth is better than the best lie.
Sometimes, I just feel defeated. I have to face the fact that I will never know what happened in the past.
To anyone out there that knows of someone who has cheated on someone, please tell that person. It is a crime that this person wakes up every day living a "fake" life and not knowing that their spouse had cheated on them. This is my worst nightmare. I do believe that a lot of affairs could be broken up by someone else spilling the beans. If other people stepped up and did the right thing and told the person that their spouse is cheating on them, this world might be a better place to live in. People wouldn't be wasting their life away with someone who doesn't really love them.
So please, if you know of someone who is being cheated on, please let their spouse know.
Ok, I am done with my rant now. :crying:
I hear and read countless stories of people cheating on their spouse and they will never admit to it. Even if there is significant evidence. They would rather take it to their grave. I don't get it.
Someone please explain this to me.
I have "some" suspicions that my husband cheated on me years ago, but I don't have the "smoking gun"... I have begged, pleaded, and prayed that he would tell me the truth. He will still not admit to cheating on me. I hate living in limbo. I hate not knowing the truth or the facts. I hate not knowing if my marriage is based on lies and secrets.
I have been on TAM for a long time now. Not sure if my suspicions & fear have grown from his previous past lies. I am not sure that forums such as TAM has made me a tad paranoid. IDK
What I do know is that I could never keep cheating a secret from my spouse. No matter what. Even if it meant we would end up divorcing. The worst truth is better than the best lie.
Sometimes, I just feel defeated. I have to face the fact that I will never know what happened in the past.
To anyone out there that knows of someone who has cheated on someone, please tell that person. It is a crime that this person wakes up every day living a "fake" life and not knowing that their spouse had cheated on them. This is my worst nightmare. I do believe that a lot of affairs could be broken up by someone else spilling the beans. If other people stepped up and did the right thing and told the person that their spouse is cheating on them, this world might be a better place to live in. People wouldn't be wasting their life away with someone who doesn't really love them.
So please, if you know of someone who is being cheated on, please let their spouse know.
Ok, I am done with my rant now. :crying:
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