So I got engaged about 2 months ago to my boyfriend of 3 years. I still live with my parents and he with his, as to save money for the wedding and everything else. (We have recently started looking into moving out soon though) Lots has changed but nothing in the sense of where we spend our time. Lately my mom has gotten so weird and mean when I don't come straight home after work. (I work two full time jobs and go to college too) so I feel like if I want to stop and talk to my soon to be in-laws after work for an hour or two, then I deserve it. I pay my own bills, I pay her rent, I buy everything for myself, and even cook my own meals most nights. And she still refuses to treat me like an adult. We had a 4th of July party at my in laws last weekend and my mom slapped me in front of everyone because I was joking around with my sister in law and my mother didn't like what we were saying... But also if I stay with my fiance and his family too much my mom goe s crazy about how I'm always with "those people" and she'll throw in my face all that she has done for me in the past and be like "but what have they done for you". It's really annoying because I get along so well with his family, better than my own, though I would never tell my parents that. My MIL is so much easier to talk to and more supportive than my mom and my mom gets pissed when I talk to my in laws more than her. What can I do about that...without completely ruining my relationship with her?
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