My husband and I have been together for 10 years and mariied for the last 2 years. We are having our first child together as I am 5 months pregnant. We had been trying last year but stopped trying this year and it finally happened naturally. We had been having a lot of issues during the last 6months and even tried marriage counseling as he said he didnt feel the same about me and that he was just tired of all the arguements. I just found out that he had been having an affair which he admitted to, he told me they have been intimate for about a year and that he doesn't love me anymore and that he loves her. I pleaded for him to reconsider and he would not budge. He continued talk to me like i never meant anything to him. He is still very happy about this child and wants to be included in ultrasounds and with the baby shower but has made it very clear that he wants to be with her and not me. He is iving on his friend's couch as he cannot afford his own plac e and she lives with her mother. He is 27 and she is 24 by the way. She has no responsibilties and he had many while married with me. I am having a difficult time coping as he has been gone a month and when i talk to him in person he talks to ok but through the phone or text messages he is very rude and tells me he only wants to talk about baby related things. Everyone is saying he will come around when the baby is born and he will realize the life he is leaving behind but I don't think he will and that is also a long time from now. I don't know how to be whether to continue to allow him at appointments etc. or just cut him out complettely until the baby is born. At this point i do want the idea of my family back but not sure if that''s just the pregnancy hormones talking. Please help any suggestions do you think the relationship will last. Anyone been in this situation.
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