My wife of 16 years and I have had some very tough years that we have rebuilt from over the past 8 months. We are making remarkable progress rebuilding our love from neglect and lack of emotional connections but a few issues remain.
One of the few remaining issues is she asks me very directly if I am interested in being intimate with her.
I would prefer for her to seduce me non-verbally when she has desires. I have told her what I would like and she is making strides on that direction which has been very lovely for both of us but she mostly still uses this verbal inquiry method that I find very unsexy because it is was the only way for so long.
I believe the only reason she has the habit of verbally asking about my interest/desire is to avoid the horrible feelings of rejection that I was obliviously insensitive about in the past. It is a mater of confidence in me that I will not hurt her feelings ever again which I am fully committed to never doing ever again.
Am I being too impatient or is there something else I can do to encourage and reassure her that she is safe from being hurt if she engages in non-verbal seduction?
One of the few remaining issues is she asks me very directly if I am interested in being intimate with her.
I would prefer for her to seduce me non-verbally when she has desires. I have told her what I would like and she is making strides on that direction which has been very lovely for both of us but she mostly still uses this verbal inquiry method that I find very unsexy because it is was the only way for so long.
I believe the only reason she has the habit of verbally asking about my interest/desire is to avoid the horrible feelings of rejection that I was obliviously insensitive about in the past. It is a mater of confidence in me that I will not hurt her feelings ever again which I am fully committed to never doing ever again.
Am I being too impatient or is there something else I can do to encourage and reassure her that she is safe from being hurt if she engages in non-verbal seduction?
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