Hello!
Before I explain, I want to ask that you keep an open mind and read the whole post.
So me and my fiance are deeply in love. I couldn't imagine life without him and I cant even think of a future without him in it. My parents on the other hand feel as if I'm too young to even consider what love is. We have been dating for only 3 months but the way i feel about him is euphoric. My parents haven't been able to really see us together since I'm off in college and they've only seen us together once. I feel like if they knew how much he takes care of me and is just such a huge support system in my life that they may understand. But every time I try to explain it to them they don't listen. I get that they are considered about us only being 19 but we both have had so much trauma in our life that we had to grow up fast and our maturity level is very impressive for a 19 year old. They know that I love him and I'm going to marry him at some point. But they want me to wait until I'm 22 and have graduated. My future husband on the other hand just wants us to do our own thi ng and elope together and have an actual wedding after we graduate.
So the real question is do I wait until later and please my parents or do I elope and please the love of my life. I know a big argument is "whats the rush?" but for me its "whats the wait?" Why should I put my life on hold?
If i can have some opinions and advice I'm hoping it would be easier to choose. I would like advice from everyone whether you have experience with marriage or not. Thank you!
Before I explain, I want to ask that you keep an open mind and read the whole post.
So me and my fiance are deeply in love. I couldn't imagine life without him and I cant even think of a future without him in it. My parents on the other hand feel as if I'm too young to even consider what love is. We have been dating for only 3 months but the way i feel about him is euphoric. My parents haven't been able to really see us together since I'm off in college and they've only seen us together once. I feel like if they knew how much he takes care of me and is just such a huge support system in my life that they may understand. But every time I try to explain it to them they don't listen. I get that they are considered about us only being 19 but we both have had so much trauma in our life that we had to grow up fast and our maturity level is very impressive for a 19 year old. They know that I love him and I'm going to marry him at some point. But they want me to wait until I'm 22 and have graduated. My future husband on the other hand just wants us to do our own thi ng and elope together and have an actual wedding after we graduate.
So the real question is do I wait until later and please my parents or do I elope and please the love of my life. I know a big argument is "whats the rush?" but for me its "whats the wait?" Why should I put my life on hold?
If i can have some opinions and advice I'm hoping it would be easier to choose. I would like advice from everyone whether you have experience with marriage or not. Thank you!
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