I just did something really dumb and I wish I could take it back. My little boy was invited to a birthday party for a classmate, but my wife was dead set against it. Rather then just telling the mother we couldn't attend, I told the mother the truth as to why my son could not attend the party; I explained that due to jealousy and paranoia, my wife doesn't want my son to attend the party. I begged the mother to understand and to please not say a word to anyone about what I just explained to her. She was nice enough to seemingly understand the predicament I was in. I felt guilty, and let my guard down, and now I realize I just should have kept my mouth shut. My son was being denied an opportunity to attend his friend's party because my wife's pettiness. I know if she found out what I said, I would be in big trouble. Our relationship is already rocky, but I was angry that she couldn't get over her personal enmity and paranoia. I know that I did this b ecause my wife is also a control freak who tries to control my feelings and what I say, and as a result it was my way of trying to free myself of the lunacy I have to deal with. There are other major issues that I have to contend with in my marriage, so I am thinking I did this as an act of rebellion against her. What do you think?
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