This is actually a book title and a great read for anyone that is in that limbo state. Author, Mira Kirshenbaum, makes some very good points. One simple question.....do you like your spouse? Not for what she/he provides or that they are a good parent or they keep themselves up.....do you like your spouse?? Powerful!
The author touches on something too that I found very helpful. We always hear, "You can't change him, the only person you can change is yourself." Personally, I feel this statement leads to accepting of behavior that we do not need to accept and this book explains exactly that. That we do have a right to ask for and expect change for behavior that is hurting the marriage.
Very informative and really makes one think.
The author touches on something too that I found very helpful. We always hear, "You can't change him, the only person you can change is yourself." Personally, I feel this statement leads to accepting of behavior that we do not need to accept and this book explains exactly that. That we do have a right to ask for and expect change for behavior that is hurting the marriage.
Very informative and really makes one think.
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