How would you feel

Had our first dat etogethe rin several months. The dinner conversation consisted of him telling me how much out lawyer hates me. He really really hates me according to my husband ( my husbands always likes to point out when people dont like me). He also mentions how when I had an arguement with the lawyer to stand up for the family, that I wasn't the first b/c one of his ex's did too (something he likes to do often as well. He tells me that most things I do his ex's have already done that same thing too). He then tells a long winded conversation about how the women at his work told him that they were shocked when they saw me on his facebook page. I apparently am not what they expected him to be with. I am to common looking and not as edgy and petite as they would have expected. He repeated this several times as if the first time I didn't hear him. Later after a movie we were discussing what we thought. I was focusing on the characters actual acting chops. He however wouldn't stop dissecting the lead actresses physical appearance. I told him to maybe focus on her acting and he just stopped the convo. SO when we get home and I have to put the kids in bed ( we have two kids under 3) of course what is nest, sex. I get down stair and he just strips his clothes of and puffs his chest out and walks towards me. He almost like chest bumps me and says "look at this guy". He is blocking m path from walking to put my shoes away all the while sticking his overly puffed out chest in my face repeating the above phrase. I get around him to the couch and he just crawls on top of me and jiggles my boob and pats my stomach like you would a dog (sexy right). I am totally put off by this (am I wrong). I am hoping that we can still save the night, that maybe he will actual touch me like a person. He doesnt he sits back and stares at me goes ok goodnight. He mumbles something as he goes down that stairs. I was left sitting there think ok... I was just completely tense after all the events of the night. I just wanted him to hug me and say he had a nice time. I didnt need to me out down in all the conversations we had then man handled like an animal. He makes me feel like I am so terrible to him but he demeans me all the time. Whenever I say something he says he is just being funny. Followed by I'm sorry but nothing EVER changes he repeats doing the same things I tell him make me uncomfortable. Am I unreasonable>

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