First things first, I'm sorry this is going to be such a long post. I have been holding on to this for awhile...
My husband and I have been married for just over a year now but we have been together for almost 3. Our relationship has been rocky, to say the least. We moved cross country 10 months ago and my husband has turned into a completely different person. He is angry, confrontational, and defensive. He will yell at me over the smallest things, he makes back-handed comments about something I've done or haven't done, he is over-protective of his cellphone and money, and whenever I try to talk to him about how all of this makes me feel, he turns it around on me and makes me feel at fault or like I am just being paranoid....
and he is down right LAZY. He will leave dirty clothes all over the house, trash will pile up next to his recliner, and he always has an excuse. I don't know how many times I have asked him to pick up after himself and he will say he is going to but then never does. We both work 2 jobs. There is no reason I should have to come home from work and clean up after him before I can relax. I am a shell of the person I used to be. I used to have so much energy and excitement for life and now I have all I can do to drag myself out of bed in the morning. I want my life back, I want my fun-loving, charismatic, sweet husband back. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm running in place and drowning all at once.
Someone please help.... :confused:
My husband and I have been married for just over a year now but we have been together for almost 3. Our relationship has been rocky, to say the least. We moved cross country 10 months ago and my husband has turned into a completely different person. He is angry, confrontational, and defensive. He will yell at me over the smallest things, he makes back-handed comments about something I've done or haven't done, he is over-protective of his cellphone and money, and whenever I try to talk to him about how all of this makes me feel, he turns it around on me and makes me feel at fault or like I am just being paranoid....
and he is down right LAZY. He will leave dirty clothes all over the house, trash will pile up next to his recliner, and he always has an excuse. I don't know how many times I have asked him to pick up after himself and he will say he is going to but then never does. We both work 2 jobs. There is no reason I should have to come home from work and clean up after him before I can relax. I am a shell of the person I used to be. I used to have so much energy and excitement for life and now I have all I can do to drag myself out of bed in the morning. I want my life back, I want my fun-loving, charismatic, sweet husband back. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm running in place and drowning all at once.
Someone please help.... :confused:
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