I have been single since September, and it was a very difficult break up. We both cried, wanted to be friends etc. Everyone was shocked - it was like the golden couple split, I saw myself marrying him. I don't believe in soul mates, but this is as close I could get. Anyway, it's over for a number of reasons, and even as I write this now, I feel that maybe one day when things are better for both of us, we could start again. As you may have gathered I'm not fully over him.
I have been seeing someone since November, he is very nice, we have hit it off well. He treats me very nicely, takes me out, makes me feel special, gives up a lot of time, money, effort for me, and I am forever grateful for this. I have grown very fond of him, but there's certain things he does (e.g. he has a bit of a temper, is a little ghetto with how he acts etc) whereas my ex wasn't. I can't help but compare the two.
This new guy is great - and I do like him, I get butterflies before seeing him, I look forward to hearing from him, I want to talk to him all the time etc. but something just isn't there, and I don't know what it is. I don't know if perhaps in the future I may start to really like him? Or if it's the case that if I don't now, I never will? I just need some advice. I don't just want to say no to him because I'm not fully over my ex, because I don't want to throw this away due to wrong timing.
Anyone been in this situation or can advise?
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