(This kind of continues from what I wrote yday about the talking in a foreign language thing for those who read it..)
Today, I said to my friend to wait for me after her lecture because I couldn't go to uni early as I had work to do, and so we could talk after the lecture. She said yeah ok.
So after the lecture, I was walking with my friend, and she was walking with another guy friend and she went and sat down at a table. I looked at her and said I'm going home, see u. She just said bye.
Anyway so I was walking home and she sent me a message on whatsapp saying "why are u running away from me?"
I said no I wanted to sit and talk, but your other friend is there. And you just talk in your language all the time when I am there too, and it's not comfortable for me, because I don't understand and I don't like it.
The she says "ok bye so we can never sit together again"
I said why are you saying that?
She says because if her friends are there with her (all guys), she can't say to them go to.
I said of course not. I didn't ask you to do that. I didn't even say anything. I just said I'm going home, see u. She was the one that started writing things on whatsapp.
Now before you all have a go at me, saying I am jealous, etc. Hear me out..
I really find it uncomfortable when she is talking in her language when I am there too.
Last time, I was standing there for 20 mins while she and her guy friend talked for 20 mins and I was just standing there quiet and annoyed.
Then she says to me "do whatever u want. if u dont want to come dont come. go home"
So what just happened here? Who is at fault?
I don't think I did anything wrong. I just feel really uncomfortable when they just talk in their language. It makes me feel uneasy and left out I guess, and I think it is just RUDE.
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