toxic friends

One of the pieces of advice I hear on here a lot is the WS should cut all contact with the friends who helped hide the affair because you say they are toxic. This can also include friends who knew about it, didn't condone it, but also didn't tell you. So shouldn't this rule be used against the WS. In other words the spouses of the friends who hadn't known at the time should get them to cut all contact with your WS because they are toxic.

So to the BS on here, what would you do if they did that? Would you be angry even though they were doing exactly what you were doing? I just see no difference. You can't really say the friends are toxic yet your WS isn't.

How many here have a friend who is cheating or has cheated and hasn't said anything? If so then doesn't that make you a toxic friend? You may say that its because their spouse is really horrible but did you only hear this from the friend? What do you think your WS told their friends about you. Or because you are a BS and know the lies that are told would you expose the affair? Or at the very least get them to end one of the relationships.

I'm just curious because sometimes I wonder if you can actually say the friends are toxic . Especially if the WS is painting you as some abusive monster who is making their life hell.

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