If you are with this girl and you have feelings for her, but lets say you both have argued tons and it has really taken a toll on your relationship. I mean it isn't healthy at all to constantly argue in the first place, but because both people love each other, they end up forgiving and getting back together. However, one person in this relationship is sort of giving up, when he looks at the girl he doesn't feel that same thing he felt before due to all those fights and it kinda poisoned things. He still feels strongly for her though, I mean every day he will think of her but he just won't put so much effort in the relationship. Is it best to let go? This girl is like a perfect being to him, super nice, like an angel, and he...well he knows he does not have the same morals as her and he is not as nice and a lot of the times they argue due to his selfishness. Would it be best for things to move on and her to find a better guy and him to find someone else? This would really hurt the girl that is insanely in love with him.
Basically what I'm trying to say is...I have been really low mostly because of guilt and the past that haunts me. I've said some hurtful things and have been selfish to certain points and we had so many arguments that now any argument that surges, she will bring half of the **** i've done and dump it on my back. I feel like I'm crawling. She said she does that so that I can do better and improve etc, but all it does is just put me down. Our main problem is just stupid arguments that lead to big fights and this sort of negative vibe between us, but we get back together all the time. I just fear that I must let go even though I feel so much for this girl. Maybe I don't feel enough to make it work (this is me quoting her last sentence). She says that if I feel so much that I will make everything work, I do feel but it is just not working. Can 2 people love each other and things not work out because they are so different mostly in the way they were brought up, views, morals, a lo t of things. Not religion or anything like that, but more core things in the mind, like the way I think is different to hers.
She is going through a lot of pain and she is crazily in love with me. What do I do?
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