Wife is BPD ,
refused consultancy even when it is a deal breaker.
when cornered she said , you can go to another women if you want : victimizing herself .
I have red So many books about normal relations : his needs her need, articles, Men are from Mars ....
Any advise how to handle a BPD ?
-The first two hints I learned the hard way :
1)- never critisize or compare myself to her ideals ( parents, friends, relatives, etc... : they are untouchable .
2)-Never argue with logic ; to win approach her with feelings .
any other suggestions ?
:scratchhead:
refused consultancy even when it is a deal breaker.
when cornered she said , you can go to another women if you want : victimizing herself .
I have red So many books about normal relations : his needs her need, articles, Men are from Mars ....
Any advise how to handle a BPD ?
-The first two hints I learned the hard way :
1)- never critisize or compare myself to her ideals ( parents, friends, relatives, etc... : they are untouchable .
2)-Never argue with logic ; to win approach her with feelings .
any other suggestions ?
:scratchhead:
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