i am the kind of person who results to feeling angry and even cries when i am critisized by my Fiancee, i feel hes attacking and doesn't find anything good in anything i do, well in most cases it has happened that hes always finding fault in most things i do.
if you have read my previous posts you may have noticed a trend of such events. but now i want to work on my emotions and try be open minded. am not sure whether am passive aggressive type.
but i always feel so bad when he confronts me, i feel like i have failed him and also feel like a not living up to his standards.
my anger and crying at such times has made him decide that he will not be discussing deep conversations with me because i get angry and hurt. but my question is guys does it mean deep conversations mean criticizing me? i asked him that same question.
he has not answered he says i don't show love and care to him, so am thinking maybe when i work on my emotions other things may be sorted alongside.
help pliz...
if you have read my previous posts you may have noticed a trend of such events. but now i want to work on my emotions and try be open minded. am not sure whether am passive aggressive type.
but i always feel so bad when he confronts me, i feel like i have failed him and also feel like a not living up to his standards.
my anger and crying at such times has made him decide that he will not be discussing deep conversations with me because i get angry and hurt. but my question is guys does it mean deep conversations mean criticizing me? i asked him that same question.
he has not answered he says i don't show love and care to him, so am thinking maybe when i work on my emotions other things may be sorted alongside.
help pliz...
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