My wife is always nagging about my mom. there are some points that she is right. but now they had a big fight. for the last 10 years my mother did all my wife requested. always helping out, running errands, helping with the kids and etc.. meanwhile my sister and law and mother in law do nothing. even when my wife had serious knee surgery and was not able to walk for 6 months and then another 6 months on a walker my SIL and MIL did nothing. they came by once every 2 weeks and 2 hours and help. but neither one of them even have a job. they just sit home all day.
but my mom was there every day, helping with the kids, cooking cleaning and anything my wife needed she was there. while i was working.
once in a while my mom would be a lil annoying and sometimes overbearing and she can get very nervous. but you need to take the good wit the bad. i didn't think it was out of control but my wife thought it was too much.
we had some bumps in the road and decided to get help so we saw a therapists for a bout 1 yea and 1/2. it worked and i would talk to mom about the things that my wife was annoyed at and my mom would apologize.
but after their fight because my mother mentioned to my aunt how the neighbors children have no discipline and do and say what they want but my wife discipline her kids but when she does it it upset my mom because she hate to see my grandkids upset. but they need it have it in their life. then the next day my mom came over and started washing the dishes and my wife flipped. so the next day they went to talk and they got into a fight.
i went to talk to my mom and she got very pissed. she says i do everything for your wife asked and i don't want you to fight over me. my mom says she cant help the way she says things or the things my mom does make my wife thinks she is trying to control her. she said i never come to you with the things your wife says and annoys me because i don't want you two fight.
but i wife has a problem that is she very sensitive and the second someone looks at her the wrong way she damns them. now is she trying to ruin the relationship with my parents.
i don't know what to do. for
the last 4 days that all my wife talks about in the morning she calls he 6 times a day and then when i get home.
but my mom was there every day, helping with the kids, cooking cleaning and anything my wife needed she was there. while i was working.
once in a while my mom would be a lil annoying and sometimes overbearing and she can get very nervous. but you need to take the good wit the bad. i didn't think it was out of control but my wife thought it was too much.
we had some bumps in the road and decided to get help so we saw a therapists for a bout 1 yea and 1/2. it worked and i would talk to mom about the things that my wife was annoyed at and my mom would apologize.
but after their fight because my mother mentioned to my aunt how the neighbors children have no discipline and do and say what they want but my wife discipline her kids but when she does it it upset my mom because she hate to see my grandkids upset. but they need it have it in their life. then the next day my mom came over and started washing the dishes and my wife flipped. so the next day they went to talk and they got into a fight.
i went to talk to my mom and she got very pissed. she says i do everything for your wife asked and i don't want you to fight over me. my mom says she cant help the way she says things or the things my mom does make my wife thinks she is trying to control her. she said i never come to you with the things your wife says and annoys me because i don't want you two fight.
but i wife has a problem that is she very sensitive and the second someone looks at her the wrong way she damns them. now is she trying to ruin the relationship with my parents.
i don't know what to do. for
the last 4 days that all my wife talks about in the morning she calls he 6 times a day and then when i get home.
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