My wife cheated on me and don't know what to do. We were having problems with our relationship for a year or better before she was unfaithful. We were not talking and had resented each other. She works as a bartender and is around guys all the time and one of the patrons are who eventually got to her. After she was caught we split for a couple of months and now we started talking again. I currently rent an apartment but not big enough for the kids so I often stay at the house when she has to work. I love being around this woman but can't say that she does me. I mean she tells me that she wants to work on things and shows interest once in a while and that I am pushing her. This past weekend we did have sex but not sure it was because she wanted me just the sex. She goes out and party's now more than when our marriage was good. She tells me that I have nothing to worry about and that if she does have feelings for somebody else she would tell me ca use she doesn't want to go through this again. She would rather hang with friends and coworkers when we are out and gets drunk off her ass and tells me that I need to find some friends to hang with. She talks like she wants to be with me in the long run saying things like we should buy bigger house or making plans that have me in them but are years away from the plans. We don't kiss and aren't physically close, when she leaves for work she seldom says by. Granted it has only been 4 months since this has all came out I feel like we are a lot closer to each other than we were before the affair just not as close as I would like to be right now. Am I pushing the issue by wanting more from her or is she just holding on till she finds something better. I would be interested in knowing what you think. I know I am rambling but if you want to know more let me know and I will continue on. I could write a book about how I am feeling.
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