Hello everyone!
First I would like to thank you all in advanced for the advice and comments.
So my wife and I have been married for almost a year. I am 27 and she is 23.
So my wife and I got into a conversation the other day about if there is anything that we miss from when we were dating. After my response, my wife say that she misses the mystery that I use to have and bring to our dating life. I ask her what she meant by this and she responded with a few examples. For instance she said she misses wondering what was on my mind; what I was thinking. She says she liked when I would hang out with friends wondering what I was doing how my night was. Mysteries of not knowing where we were going on a date or telling her that I had a surprise for her but she had to wait for an extended amount of time. There are a lot of examples. Although we have a great marriage, I do not want it to get boring. I would like to add something back into the relationship to help it stay fun.
My questions are:
Is mystery ok in a marriage?
What type of mystery is ok?
What are some fun ideas that I can use or look into to add mystery to our marriage. (Something that will keep her wondering, Drive her crazy (In a good way), just mystery that can bring a new fun to the realtionship.)
Thanks again!
First I would like to thank you all in advanced for the advice and comments.
So my wife and I have been married for almost a year. I am 27 and she is 23.
So my wife and I got into a conversation the other day about if there is anything that we miss from when we were dating. After my response, my wife say that she misses the mystery that I use to have and bring to our dating life. I ask her what she meant by this and she responded with a few examples. For instance she said she misses wondering what was on my mind; what I was thinking. She says she liked when I would hang out with friends wondering what I was doing how my night was. Mysteries of not knowing where we were going on a date or telling her that I had a surprise for her but she had to wait for an extended amount of time. There are a lot of examples. Although we have a great marriage, I do not want it to get boring. I would like to add something back into the relationship to help it stay fun.
My questions are:
Is mystery ok in a marriage?
What type of mystery is ok?
What are some fun ideas that I can use or look into to add mystery to our marriage. (Something that will keep her wondering, Drive her crazy (In a good way), just mystery that can bring a new fun to the realtionship.)
Thanks again!
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