Hi,
My wife and I have been married now for 7 years now and she never told me or made it obvious that her and ex husband are still friends. The other day I just happened to be in the Kitchen getting a sip of water, and her phone happened to flash that there is an incoming text message from her ex husband. When I told her, I never knew that she and her ex was exchanging text [they don't have any kids together], she told me that it was something benign. So, I ask her to see the message exchanges. She refuses to on the ground of privacy.
I do believe in some privacy in a marriage. She is very close to her sister and her brother. I regard that any conversation that she has with her brother, her sister, her mom, her best friend etc.. to be totally private. In this case, however, this is an ex-husband with whom she doesn't share any kids, that she is hiding the fact that they are exchanging text messages. I feel that when it comes to our exes we should be transparent and therefore she should allow me to see this particular conversation thread. She refuses to. Who is right? Does privacy in a marriage include unknown conversations with exes?
My wife and I have been married now for 7 years now and she never told me or made it obvious that her and ex husband are still friends. The other day I just happened to be in the Kitchen getting a sip of water, and her phone happened to flash that there is an incoming text message from her ex husband. When I told her, I never knew that she and her ex was exchanging text [they don't have any kids together], she told me that it was something benign. So, I ask her to see the message exchanges. She refuses to on the ground of privacy.
I do believe in some privacy in a marriage. She is very close to her sister and her brother. I regard that any conversation that she has with her brother, her sister, her mom, her best friend etc.. to be totally private. In this case, however, this is an ex-husband with whom she doesn't share any kids, that she is hiding the fact that they are exchanging text messages. I feel that when it comes to our exes we should be transparent and therefore she should allow me to see this particular conversation thread. She refuses to. Who is right? Does privacy in a marriage include unknown conversations with exes?
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