Tired and don't care anymore

I have been married for almost 29 yrs, my husband is 20 yrs my senior. He is a type of person that is overbearing and everything has to be his way, to the point of being emotionally abusive. For at least the last seven years I have been lonely. He basically has prevented me from having outside friendships where I can do something with someone else. Including going to see my family at anytime. When we are with other people he talks over me and dominates the conversation as if I have nothing relevant to contribute. I began exercising and joined a dance studio and was going daily for a hour, he complained so much that I now only go two days a week after work and don't go on the weekends at all. Recently one of my coworkers took me for a girls weekend and when I got home nothing was done, everything was left for me to do as usually, he even called to yell at me about an issue that needed to be taken care of. Currently I manage the finances ( he is retired) I do all of the household chores including taking care of the animals. He does nothing. He fishes or watches tv that is it. Our conversation revolves around his fishing when it occurs or it is just watching sports on TV then gets angry that I play on the iPad. I stayed an hour after dance with a friend the other night and when I got home he informed me that he was getting an apartment because I make him feel irreverent am domineering and don't show him any attention. He then said that everything is my way and I am domineering and controlling. My response was ok, I just didn't care. Now he is trying to act as if it never occurred and I on the other hand just want out. I am tired and want a life and I am not getting much younger. I am also not attracted to him anymore either. Just not interested and haven't been for years. I suggested counseling but he says he doesn't have a problem it is all me. Don't get me wrong, I love him like someone that you have known 29 yrs, definitely not in love and haven't been for a long time.

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